tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20204381.post7416113965707140564..comments2023-10-25T05:58:13.853-04:00Comments on Funny Girl's Memoirs: Lessons in MarriageDeeMariehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09535922017962913995noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20204381.post-43556457993123927272011-02-27T19:40:45.799-05:002011-02-27T19:40:45.799-05:00It's awesome that you were able to open up to ...It's awesome that you were able to open up to him about things! I'm sure it's hard to let go of certain things now that you're married but I truly believe that in doing this you're bettering your marriage. When Dan and I got married we got a joint bank account. We didn't really think twice about it. We actually lived off of his salary and put my salary in an ING savings account. Of course if you have debt you want to take care of that first. Financial freedom is so important in a marriage. I know that most of the arguments that Dan and I have are because of money (trying to figure out bills and stuff like that). Since I'm not working it has been more difficult but God has always provided for us. I tell Dan everything that I but not because I have to but because when we married two became one. We're open and honest and when it's time to buy presents we're reasonable with what we buy. I have never felt like it's "his money" "my money" at all. It just seemed natural to have a joint account. Not sure if this helps at all=)BluSkies80https://www.blogger.com/profile/03050625285128843823noreply@blogger.com